lonely and can't find anyone to chat with

I googled and found this site, and I thought I would post and see if I get replies or not. A little background on me....i'm 46 and have been divorced for a few years. I'm a pretty shy guy when it comes to the ladies - or maybe, it's more like I have a fear and hatred of rejection. Despite that, the first year after my divorce I did have some sexual encounters with a few different women. Not really much of my doing, they kind of fell into my lap, so to speak. But since my last time - going on nearly 3 years now - I have had nothing at all. I don't mind too much, because I'm kind of a loner and I really don't want a committed realtionship. But I do miss the sex, and I do get horny alot, and during those times recently I really have really desired to talk with real women but I can't seem to find any. I have some friends that I have talked sexually to, but I feel like I've done that too often and I have gotten to the point of annoyance with them. I've tried to seach for places online but I can't find anything. THe only times I have even gotten responses, turns out to be scammers from Ghana or something.

So, I guess my question is...does anyone have any advice for me? Anyone know of where I can meet real people to chat online or whatever? I know women are much different from men, but I find it hard to believe that there are some women that would be interested in this big old world.

lonely and can't find anyone to chat with